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As a master reframing expert with over 50 years experience, I help you reframe and focus more clearly on what’s important to you, your personal life goals, your business, and how to navigate though challenging times. My unique and counterintuitive approach gives you a fresh perspective and clearer lens through-which to view your world. I guarantee my work and would love to work with you on either a group or individual basis.


“To reframe a burning question is to gain a fresh perspective and unleash your full potential.”


Session Pricing*:

Business & Organizational Re-framing  and Focus Session (day rate): $1,200

Business & Organizational Re-framing  and Focusing Mind-map (1/2 day): $700

Personal Re-framing  and Focusing Mind-map (around 3 hours): $375

Personal focusing consultation (around 1 hour): $150

Initial consultation (around 30 minutes) – No charge

Men’s circle development and coaching – Sliding scale


Sessions are in person or via ZOOM.

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*Rates, plus travel and expenses are negotiable given these uncertain times.

Servant leadership

Servant leadership

Servant leadership is both a leadership philosophy and set of leadership practices. Traditional leadership generally involves the accumulation and exercise of power by one at the “top of the pyramid.” By comparison, the servant-leader shares power, puts the needs of others first and helps people develop and perform as highly as possible. Servant leadership turns the power pyramid upside down; instead of the people working to serve the leader, the leader exists to serve the people. When leaders shift their mindset and serve first, they unlock purpose and ingenuity in those around them, resulting in higher performance and engaged, fulfilled employees. A servant leader’s purpose should be to inspire and equip the people they influence.

Enabling Others To Act

Enabling Others To Act

Clay BoykinEnabling others to act is one of the five principles of leadership called out by Jim Kouses and Barry Posner in their book, The Leadership Challenge. One aspect of enabling others to act is knowing how to delegate, but it is much more and is deeply intertwined with the other four principles: Creating an inspired vision, Modeling the way, Challenging the Process and encouraging the heart.

So what does Enabling others to act mean beyond simple delegation? First, let’s spend a few minutes on the art of delegation. How many times have you sat at the top of an organization and not wanted to turn loose of a task because it seems it would be easier and quicker to yourself; or the team is already working so hard and you don’t want to burden them; or you don’t trust that it will be done exactly how you want it done; or it’s something you really enjoy doing and so you do it yourself even though there are more pressing matters at hand; or you have no clue how to do the task and you don’t want to embarrass yourself by asking for help. I could go in, but you get the point.

No one is perfect… At times I try and shield my people from a messy task and not to overload them. Sometimes these tasks belong on my desk and so I’m on track for not delegating. On the other hand, what have I done if I do not delegate something that should rightfully be delegated? First, I have shortchanged the organization and possibly put the company in jeopardy by spending time on the task rather than keeping my eye on the bigger picture such as focusing on the organization’s strategy and direction. Second, and more importantly, I have robbed someone from the opportunity to learn by doing or shine by doing.

What are some of the other aspects of enabling others to act? For most this may be a blinding glimpse of the obvious… Ask yourself, do my people have the right equipment, materials, organization structure, training and development, atmosphere and culture within which to work, are they safe both physically and emotionally… can they relate to, and have they bought into, the company vision, and can they step out with new ideas and raise issues without fear. There are many more questions along these lines, and so much more that can be said.

Suffice it to say, enabling others to act is worth any good person’s time to reflect upon as it relates to how they lead their team.