Clay Boykin

Personal Growth & Inner Wisdom Guide

“Let’s Activate Your Inner Patterns of Wisdom!”

Unleashing Your Potential

As a life coach, I stand with you, navigating through both personal and professional challenges to help you reach your fullest potential. My approach is distinctive and counterintuitive, designed to awaken your inner wisdom and enrich the trajectory toward your aspirations.

People from all walks of life can reap the rewards of life coaching in varied facets of their existence, each individual harboring their unique set of goals and aspirations. In my practice, I am right beside you, collaboratively crafting your Individual Growth & Development Blueprint as we tackle life’s challenges, personal and professional development. My methodology is far from a one-size-fits-all solution; it is meticulously tailored to align with your specific requirements and circumstances.


Over the past 11 years Clay has helped me tremendously, both personally and professionally, with his reframing and mind mapping expertise. Clay Helps you overcome your limitations. His intuitive and creative approach has helped me gain fresh and unique perspectives with which to navigate through difficult and challenging life and business situations. The time he has spent mentoring along side me has been invaluable. I wholeheartedly recommend Clay for both individual and organizational coaching and consulting. – Kirby Hiscox, Founder & CEO, Factor of One  – Austin, Texas

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Turning “Mind-Chatter” into your
“Personal Life Blueprint”

Innovative – Empowering

…a counterintuitive, uplifting and practical approach…

Life occasionally presents us with pivotal crossroads—be it during a quarter-life crisis, a phase of profound existential contemplation, or amidst major life shifts such as a drastic career transition or the commencement of a new chapter. In these decisive moments, the way forward might appear uncertain and formidable. However, my counterintuitive approach and the co-creative process of shaping your Individual Growth and Development Blueprint stands to cut through the ambiguity, empowering you with the clarity and confidence needed to successfully navigate these challenges.

Individual Growth & Development Blueprint (Personal Mandala)

Individuals often find themselves too deeply involved in their own contexts to objectively evaluate opportunities or challenges. An external viewpoint and a structured method can be crucial in unlocking their potential. The “Individual Growth & Development Blueprint” introduces a fresh perspective on brainstorming and creative problem-solving for the individual. This technique promotes a thorough and inclusive approach to idea development, nurturing personal growth and self-collaboration. Its visually stimulating method not only enhances the process of generating ideas but also leads to unique, practical, and innovative solutions tailored to you. As a strategic tool, it excels in boosting creativity and problem-solving abilities on an individual level.


Warm – Humorous nature – Expansive vision – Deep listening skills. – Captured subtle nuances – Compassionate. – Real-time mind mapping skills. Support during and after consultations. – Andreas Pellegrini – Switzerland

Beautiful approach and process – Intuitive. – Jan Blevins – Austin, Texas

Quickly grasps the essence – Significantly elevated our understanding of the issues – Chuck Robison – Director – Kundalini Research Foundation

Energetic – Creative – Results-focused – Views your issues as his issues – Team player – Asset to any organization. – Brian Bedford – Corporate Human Resources Executive

Invaluable mentorship – Multifaceted background – Enlightening and invigorating  Filled with empathy – Compassionate – Unique perspective – Self-aware – Presents strategies for success that go beyond traditional guidance. – Jack Frick, M.Div., CIC, CISR, AIS.

Authentic – Compassionate – Making a difference in this world – Has changed my life in the most fantastic ways – Martin Dowmen

A great conceptual thinker – Superb motivator – Rich Pendergraph

I was privileged to work with Clay at Motorola on several business group and corporate initiatives. Clay is one of those unique individuals that combines incredible interpersonal skills, business acumen and a special gift of creativity to bring a variety of solutions to any problem or situation. Truly an amazing individual and would bring value to any challenging environment. I highly recommend Clay. – Pete Pichette

Servant leader – Inspiring – Spiritual grounded – Art Carter

Remarkable sensitivity to people and situations – Creative – Intuitive – Perceptive – Makes the complex simple and solvable – Tim Wright

Extremely creative. Organized – Amiable – Excellent communicator – Awesome addition to any organization – Excellent leadership skills – Wonderful person to work with. – Sylvia Stern

Focused. Pragmatic – Natural leader. Integrity – Drive – Tenacity. – Cisalee Morris

Understands the true meaning of leadership – Creative and sometimes “off the wall” solutions brings out the best in everyone – Excellent communicator – Helped enable us add hundreds of millions of dollars in profitable sales to the company. – Mike Chaddock


Circles of Men: A Counter-Intuitive Approach to Creating Men’s Groups, is a self-help book. The book describes a specific model for creating and facilitating men’s groups, which are meant to provide a safe and supportive space for men to explore their emotions, connect with other men, and work on personal and collective growth.

The author, Clay Boykin, draws from his own experiences as a facilitator of men’s groups and shares his insights into the unique challenges and opportunities that men’s groups can offer. The book emphasizes the importance of creating an atmosphere of safety and trust, where men can be vulnerable and honest with each other, and it offers practical advice on how to do so. The book also covers a series of exercises and activities that can be used to facilitate the group’s sessions. They are meant to help men to explore their emotions and inner selves, to find their authentic voice, and to create deeper connections with other men.

The book’s counter-intuitive approach, as stated in the title, is the idea that men’s groups are not only beneficial for men, but that they are also essential for the well-being of society as a whole. The author argues that men’s groups can play a crucial role in addressing issues such as toxic masculinity, men’s mental health, and the breakdown of communities, by providing men with the tools and support they need to become more authentic, compassionate, and responsible individuals.