Clay Boykin

Author & Life Skills Coach

Let’s journey together

Your trail may be in front of you…

but you cannot see it…

or find it…

At some point most of us feel stuck, lost or lacking direction. I have certainly been there not knowing where “there” is.  

 I will share the tools I have developed along my journey and will walk beside you and guide you as you discover your path. 

Let’s Talk

The first 20-minutes are on me

Your journey, In Search of the New Compassionate Male, is an important one in the society. I admire your deep searching mind and the spirit to radiate good into the world. – Rev. Vincent Berepele

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Clays big heart and warm humor were present right from the beginning, which made it easy for me to trust him. Like the eagle he is a master of expansion (seeing the bigger picture) as well as of precision (seeing those “details“, which play a key role in the process). He listens deeply and captures the content as well as the information between the lines. In the right moments he shows his persistence – a persistence, which is rooted in compassion

Andreas Pellegrini

Somatic Practice for Male-Specific Trauma, Switzerland

Heart & Mind Mapping: Mandalas

Testimony – Workshops and Retreats

Testimony – Heart Mapping & Reframing

My personal life journey, and the why and how
I created a successful Contemplative Men’s Circle

A guide for anyone wanting to
start their own circle

Conversation On Spotify

Contemplative Men’s Circle Every Monday Night 7:00pm-CST Drop in and check us out

New Monday Night ZOOM Link

For the greater good I am:
In Search of the New Compassionate Male

I am in search of the New Compassionate Male. I am convinced that amidst all the turmoil in the world a New Compassionate Male is emerging as the New Archetype. I am on a journey to every corner of the planet to give voice to compassionate thought leaders.

I know there is a spark of compassion emerging within every man and within every woman. Regardless of gender, sexual orientation, nationality or religious tradition I am inviting all to join my conversation.

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