Marines who have paid the ultimate price by giving their lives for fellow Marines and the mission have best exemplified the “sacrificial mode” of Servant Leadership. It is embedded within the context of the core values of the Marine Corp’s rich heritage of personal sacrifice.
“The servant leader is first a person who has a natural desire to serve, not necessarily to lead. This model is also considered under the general school of leader and follower theories, but does not require established position or authority. This leader has a demonstrated record of selflessness, preservation of organizational goals, and concern for people within the organization. Although the leader may display qualities of other models, they are clearly willing to forego personal concerns, career concerns and even concern for their own life in preference of accomplishing the mission and taking care of people.” (Greenleaf, 1991) – United States Marine Corps Lejeune Leadership Institute – Leadership Models
Ever been “Pizzled”??? This video lecture is fascinating and informing.
“Psychologist Daniel Goleman shot to fame with his groundbreaking bestseller Emotional Intelligence. The premise of the book, now widely accepted, is that raw intelligence alone is not a sure predictor of success in life. A greater role is played by ‘softer’ skills such as self-control, self-motivation, empathy and good interpersonal relationships.
Now Goleman comes to Intelligence Squared for an exclusive talk on the themes of his latest book, Focus: The Hidden Driver of Excellence. Attention, he will argue, is an underrated asset for high achievers in any field. Incorporating findings from neuroscience, Goleman will show why we need three kinds of focus: inner, for self-awareness; other, for the empathy that builds effective relationships; and outer, for understanding the larger systems in which organisations operate. Those who excel rely on Smart Practices such as mindfulness meditation, focused preparation and positive emotions that help improve habits, add new skills, and sustain excellence.”
Whether in uniform, suit or jeans these practices stand the test of time, and yes, a spiritual male can be on top at work.
Leadership is not about personality; it’s about behavior—an observable set of skills and abilities. The “Leadership Challenge” by Jim Kouze and Bary Posner has been a favorite of mine throughout my 39 year career spanning the USMC, Corporate hi-tech, start-ups and small established businesses.
The Leadership Challenge addresses 5 leadership practices:
1) Modeling the way,
2) Inspire a shared vision,
3) Challenge the process,
4) Enable others to act,
5) Encourage the heart.
Believe it or not, Servant Leadership is a concept that is as old as time, and is one often misunderstood and thought of as an oxymoron in a parochial sense. The term “servant” is generally defined as a person who performs duties for others, especially a person employed in a house on domestic duties or as a personal attendant. Whereas, when we traditionally think about leadership we might think of the man leading his men over the wall in the midst of battle; Audie Murphy, John Wayne, Chesty Puller(for the Marines reading this), etc… As well we are inspired by great men such as Gandhi, Mandela and Lincoln.
So how is it that these two terms find themselves combined and what does it mean to me? First, to draw on my time in the Marine Corps, ingrained in us from they first day is, “take care of your men.” How we take care of our men varies in many ways. Sometimes it comes in the form of annealing them for battle, going through ordeals of personal survival and hardship; or instilling the sense of duty and honor where men embrace the Bible verse, “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friend.”
In other ways we see examples where the leader sees that his men are fed first, have the best supply chain of food and equipment, and is the one who places himself in harms way before exposing his men to danger. We see him exercising love and compassion for another human being, and knows and exercises the essence of the Golden Rule. It is in these ways that we recognize the traits of a servant leader; a man who serves his men so they can be, or become, the best they can become so that when on the front lines, whether in business or battle, they are ready, willing and able to accomplish the mission at hand.
Servant leadership is no different in business. It can be said that Southwest Airlines is in a life and death business that parallels the armed services. If someone does not do their job, people die. One of their mantras is, “If you take care of your people they will take care of the customer, and the customer will take care of the profits.” Again, it begins with taking care of your people.
I do not believe servant leadership is an oxymoron. In fact, the essence of what true leadership embodies “is” servant leadership.
Who am I? Why am I here? Does it matter? And if it matters, what is the mark I intend to leave behind?
Over 2,000 cave paintings dating back some 30,000 years cover the walls of Chauvet-Pont-d’Arc Cave in Southern France. Today, we study and wonder about their origin and what message they were intended to communicate. At the same time, they may leave us to wonder about our own origin and what it is we intend to communicate across our lifetime, and what mark it is we intend to leave behind; our legacy. –
“Legacies transcend the boundaries of time and have no limits. They stand tall in the face of trial. They prevail. They’re found in risk that cling to the promise of hope and extend beyond the limited hours of your life, and mine… They leave trails filled with reflective ideals, and are roads left for those who will follow.” – Paraphrased from the video short, Leave Your Legacy.
“A man should learn to detect and watch that gleam of light which flashes across his mind from within, more than the lustre of the firmament of bards and sages. Yet he dismisses without notice his thought, because it is his. In every work of genius we recognize our own rejected thoughts: they come back to us with a certain alienated majesty.”
Emerson “Self Reliance”
Self-Reliance is an essay written by American transcendentalist philosopher and essayist Ralph Waldo Emerson. It contains the most thorough statement of one of Emerson’s recurrent themes, the need for each individual to avoid conformity and false consistency, and follow his or her own instincts and ideas. It is the source of one of Emerson’s most famous quotations: “A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds, adored by little statesmen and philosophers and divines.”
An interesting perspective related to the origin of stress in our lives, and how the idea of “managing stress” is a misnomer.
…On a certain day, three men were working in one place. Another man came by and asked the first man, “What are you doing here?” The man looked up and said, “Are you blind? Can’t you see I’m cutting stone?” This person moved on to the next man and asked, “What are you doing here?” That man looked up and said, “Something to fill my belly. So I come here and do whatever they ask me to do. I just have to fill my belly, that’s all.” He went to the third man and asked, “What are you doing here?” That man stood up in great joy and said, “I’m building a beautiful temple here!” All of them were doing the same thing, but their experience of what they were doing was worlds apart… – Sadhguru (complete article)
Book Review: Source: The Inner Path of Knowledge Creation – As he did in his classic Synchronicity, Joseph Jaworski once again takes us on a mind-expanding journey, this time to the very heart of creativity and deep knowing.
Institutions of all sorts are facing profound change today, with complexity increasing at a speed and intensity we’ve never experienced before. Jaworski came to realize that traditional analytical leadership approaches are inadequate for dealing creatively with this complexity. To effectively face these challenges, leaders need to access the Source from which truly profound innovation flows.
Many people, including Jaworski himself, have experienced a connection with this Source, often when called upon to respond in times of crisis—moments of extreme spontaneity and intuitive insight. Actions simply flow through them, seemingly without any sort of conscious intervention. But these experiences are chance occurrences—ordinarily, we don’t know how to access the Source, and we even have a blind spot as to its very existence.
In an extraordinarily wide-ranging intellectual odyssey, Jaworski relates his fascinating experiences with quantum physicists, cognitive scientists, indigenous leaders, and spiritual thinkers, all focused on getting to the heart of the Source. Ultimately, he develops four guiding principles that encompass the nature of the Source and what we need to do to stay in dynamic dialogue with it.
Using the combination of narrative and reflection that made Synchronicity so compelling, Jaworski has written a book that illuminates the essential nature not only of visionary leadership but also of relationships, consciousness, and ultimately reality itself. –
Joseph Jaworski, author of Synchronicity and co-author of Presence: An Exploration of Profound Change in People, Organizations, and Society, two critically acclaimed books discussing emerging theories of leadership, learning, and change. Talk given at the Arlington Institute (A video I thought worth sharing.)
Joseph Jaworski – Part 1: The Heart of Synchronicity
To watch click on “Watch on Vimeo”
The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others. – Mahatma Gandhi
Mahatma: Life of Gandhi, 1869–1948 is a 1968 documentary biography film, detailing the life of Mahatma Gandhi. The film was produced by The Gandhi National Memorial Fund in cooperation with the Films Division of the Government of India, and was directed and scripted by Vithalbhai Jhaveri. Jhaveri also provides the commentary throughout the film. The film is in black and white, contains 33 reels (14 chapters), and runs for 330 minutes.
The film was made to seek to tell the life story Gandhi, and his incessant search for Truth. The film contains animation, live photography and old prints to provide an integrated image of his life. The story itself is narrated using mostly Gandhi’s own words.
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Marines who have paid the ultimate price by giving their lives for fellow Marines and the mission have best exemplified the “sacrificial mode” of Servant Leadership. It is embedded within the context of the core values of the Marine Corp’s rich heritage of personal sacrifice.
Ever been “Pizzled”??? This video lecture is fascinating and informing.
