Clay Boykin
Author | Thought Partner | GuideA Different Way Forward
What sets my approach apart is the way we bridge inner wisdom with meaningful action. Through visual mapping and thoughtful pattern recognition, we bring clarity to your inner landscape—and translate that insight into real, grounded change. It’s not just about understanding yourself—it’s about living that understanding with intention.
In Transition?
Stuck?
Burned Out?
Distracted by the noise.
You’re not alone—and there is another way forward.
Simple. Confidential. A space to explore whether this work is right for you.
What Others Have Experienced
Together, we’ll reveal your natural thought patterns, emotional responses, and decision-making style—deepening self-awareness, building emotional resilience, and helping you navigate life’s transitions with clarity and confidence.
Mapping Inner Wisdom: A Visual Journey
This is a glimpse into my own process—mapping my inner voices, thought patterns, and intuitive wisdom with nothing more than a pencil and a quiet moment.
It’s not about perfection. It’s about presence.
Each line reflects an inner rhythm, a remembered truth, a thread of meaning waiting to be seen.
We all carry a mandala within—this is simply how mine began to take shape.
You don’t have to figure it all out. Just begin.
Clarity doesn’t come all at once—it reveals itself as you listen, line by line, symbol by symbol.
Books, Podcast, and Personal Path
My path hasn’t been linear—but it’s always been guided by a quiet, inner pull toward meaning.
From my early days in the Marine Corps to decades in corporate leadership, I was outwardly successful but inwardly searching. That search led me through depth psychology, spiritual traditions, and mythology—not as abstract studies, but as living maps of the soul.
Standing among the megaliths of ancient Anatolia, I felt what I now help others uncover: a pattern within. A resonance. A personal mythology waiting to be remembered.
Today, I guide individuals through life transitions using a practice I call inner pattern recognition. Whether through coaching, writing, or sacred conversation, I offer a mirror—not to fix, but to reflect. To help you listen for the deeper wisdom already within.
This is the heart of The Mandala Within—a book, a framework, and an invitation to live with clarity, coherence, and quiet power.
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The Mandala Within: Activating Your Inner-patterns of Wisdom is a transformative guide for those on a journey of self-discovery and those intrigued by the depth of their own potential. This book weaves together ancient wisdom with contemporary thought, providing readers with innovative ways to find harmony amidst life’s chaos. It is designed for both beginners as well as those who have traversed the path of self-exploration. It offers a fresh perspective on awakening creativity, inner knowledge and wisdom, through the discovery and exploration of one’s inner-mandala.
This guide transcends traditional how-to books, encouraging readers to embark on a deeply personal journey of self-discovery and self-awareness. It fosters thoughtful engagement with the material, allowing readers the flexibility to explore and focus on the sections and chapters that resonate most with any given moment.
“Circles of Men” is a book by Clay Boykin that explores the power and significance of men’s groups and the transformative potential they hold for personal growth and collective well-being. The book offers insights and guidance on creating and participating in men’s circles or groups, where men can come together to support, challenge, and inspire each other in their individual journeys.
The author, Clay Boykin, draws from his personal experiences and interviews with men from diverse backgrounds to delve into the importance of fostering authentic connections among men. He explores the idea that in our society, men often lack spaces where they can openly express their emotions, fears, and vulnerabilities without judgment. Men’s groups provide a supportive environment for individuals to explore their identities, develop emotional intelligence, and engage in deep, meaningful conversations.
“Circles of Men” aims to break the stereotype of masculinity that promotes emotional suppression and isolation, emphasizing the significance of creating safe spaces for men to be themselves, be heard, and be seen. The book delves into various themes, including personal development, conscious communication, mentorship, and the power of community. (more…)
In Search of the New Compassionate Male Podcast is a podcast created and hosted by Clay Boykin, author of “Circles of Men: A Counter-Intuitive Approach to Creating Men’s Groups.” The series delves into the concept of compassion in men, exploring how they can become more empathetic and understanding. Through respectful conversations with a diverse array of guests worldwide, Boykin fosters a safe, inclusive space for all voices to be heard—women, men, and across the gender spectrum. The podcast aims to offer various perspectives on compassion in men, making it suitable for those seeking greater self-awareness and understanding, as well as anyone interested in the topic.